To be truly positive in the eyes of some, you have to risk appearing negative in the eyes of others
– Criss Jami
I used to be a person, who had to deal with so much, just to try and make everyone happy. Often, I would tell others, that it actually makes me feel fulfilled to see the people I try to compromise with, go on with the choices they have made and be at peace with it. Sure enough, it made me more known to people, because I was more approachable and good-natured. And for a period of time, the notion about me got stuck.
But as the months turned to years, I saw no meaning to this, and made a realization that I should not try and appease everyone, as I was not imposed to do so. This has been proven true, especially in connection to my apparent preference as a Bisexual. It came to me that I should not try to please everything body, all for the sake of doing so.